Legalize

There has been storms in our community concerning about whether the gay and the lesbians should be treated equally, with recently some famous people coming out from the closet. Apart from that, they demand for the legitimization of the marriage between the same sex. Some ethic-specialists have already voiced that it should not be accepted because it violates the nature.

Well, these ethic-specialists know a lot really. Marriage, supposedly, means the agreement of two to be together indefinitely until the kingdom comes. Then these specialists should probably explain why the so-called natural marriage in Hong Kong frequently results in divorce.

Instead of being a specialist, I hope these people can study the world in general. First, it is not a rebellious or counter-nature for the gay to become themselves. Most of the time, they are born to be. This cannot be manually changed or altered. In other words, it is their nature.

Another thing is what we should promote is a happy relationship or marriage, irrespective of the sex category. I would be more pleased to see people united themselves (no matter they are gay or straight) than seeing thousands of couples arguing for little things, resulting in a poor divorce. World has never changed, I verily tell you the ethic-specialists, people need to love and to be loved as always. There are people longing for somebody to take care of and somebody to take care for.

Of course, the above discussion is a biased one: there are still conflicts between the gays and being gay is not immune to divorce. However, it does not change the basic principle: a good relationship or a good marriage, whatever the sexes of the couple are, should not be looked down.